I need to just get away from it all for a few days, I have been wrapped up an worrying about everyones problems from friends to Teri Shaivo which I know I will continue to do because it has touched me so deeply.

I am going away for three days to just do fun things with my family. We are going to start out by going to the theater in Costa Mesa to see the Lion King, the kids have never seen a real broadway show before and I think that they will enjoy it.My husband is not that thrilled about seeing it but he wants me to be happy so we are going. I made reservations at the Embassy Suites so that we could relax an maybe take them to disneyland the second day, will plan as we go along. the main thing is to get away for awhile. A well needed rest for the  both of us.

My best friend called to tell me her husbamd of 10 years wants a divorce, when they moved away last year thay were the perfect happy family with three children. What happened in that time I don't know. Another woman is involved, she knows that. The poor girl is devastated, my heart goes out to her, she is in so much pain because he is saying things like I don't love you anymore an stopped loving you a long time ago, to me that is just being cruel. In the meantime she is calling me with an almost daily update an I am going through this with her but it is making me so depressed to hear it , I just want to be hear for her, I just feel blessed that I have never had to go through that in my own marriage. When I think about her three young children an how they love their dad it is really going to be hard for them also.I can't see how he can just throw this all away for another woman.

I just want to vent a little about my electric bill an how unfair the utility  company is. I have paid my bill on time for my business every month, no complaints about any problems with my meter. In Feb. I receive a letter from them telling me that my meter was broke an that they had replaced it in Dec. also they had refigured my bill back for an entire year an on top of what I had already paid I still owed $253.40. Needless to say I was pissed,I called them an she tells me that they have the right to charge back up to 3 years if they want to an I could work out payments, by this time I was to upset an told her I did't need to work out anything because she wasn't getting it untill I paid it an hung up the phone. I have been looking for places to complain to an finally found a utility consumer group on the web, I wrote them Sat. an was very surprised that he called me today. I received a letter from the utility people Friday sayiny that my lights would be turned off tomorrow, I finally had to call them an say that I would pay $100 towards it, this lady was very nice an said she knew that they were being unfair an my lights would not be turned off. this is not over, I want every penny of that $253.40 back.I will continue to fight this an hope that the consumer group will be able to help, they wiill be calling them tomorrow.